Dear Brethren:
Sister Todd has sent several emails to sisters in the ward and I thought I needed to let you know how we are doing. We are assigned to the Richards Bay Area. It is a seaport about two hours north of Durban. It is on the Indian Ocean and is a big sea port for different minerals from mining. It is about 20-30,000 people but it is the shopping area for a large area. To the north and west there are no other towns of any size for two hundred and fifty kilometers. It is the hottest location in the mission with weather like Houston. On Christmas Day it got to 114 degrees. It has not hit that hot since we got here but it is a challenge. We are in the Richards Bay District which is made up of five small branches. When apartheid existed they made the blacks live in what are called townships. They are towns made up of small cement homes with very little amenities. Even though apartheid no longer exists the townships do. This is where 90% of the blacks still live. Where we live it is a study in contrasts. We live for security reasons in a mainly white area which would remind you of a normal neighborhood in the US. Four of the church branches are in townships from 30-45 minutes from our home. The entire home in the townships could fit in our family rooms at home. In some of the branches there is 95% unemployment. The biggest challenge is for the members to become self reliant. The opportunity for employment throughout the entire District is very low.
Sister Todd and I are assigned to work with the five branches. We have three separate assignments. The first is to work with the young missionaries. For safety reasons there are not any sister missionaries in our mission. There are ten missionaries that we are a mother hen for. We are assigned to look after their boardings (apartments), cars and general welfare. We have learned to love them already. For safety reasons the elders do not live in the townships but travel there every day. The second assignment is to work with the district and branches. Patience is a virtue especially in Africa. Sister Todd is not a very patient person and wants to have everything done right now but we are learning it with the Lord's help. There is a saying "TIA" this is African, relax. We are loving the people, they are wonderful but they take their own time in doing something. In the last general conference one of speakers spoke on if your country and family traditions do not match the church standards you must chose the church stands and leave behind the traditions. The area presidency for southeast Africa has really been hammering this subject in very blunt words. So far it is being accepted very slowly. Our third responsibility is our own personal ministry, doing missionary work. We love to wear our missionary badges. We get lots of comments and have turned several names over to the elders. We walk every morning through our neighborhood. To get exercise but to see if we can meet the neighbors. The whites are very unresponsive to the gospel but we are trying.
The gospel is true and we love what we are doing.
Elder and Sister Todd.
Sent from my iPad
Monday, February 2, 2015
Sunday, February 1, 2015
From Larry's Point of View
Hi Everyone,
We do not live in the townships because of the safety issue. Even the young missionaries do not live there. Two young sisters were raped and beaten here so there are no young sisters in our mission at all.
Names/Education/Classes/FHE/Street Lights/Forgive Me
Greetings to all you wonderful friends and family!
Names
Each day I feel so blessed to be with the people of South Africa. I want them to feel my love for them. For me, being able to really communicate with them I need to find out about each of their children, their job (if they are lucky enough to have one), their hopes, their health, their struggles,etc, it is vital! Without this information, I feel like I am unable to offer the love and service I desire. Basic to that, would be knowing how to pronounce their name properly. I have described how, thus far, this has been impossible for me. I said, "thus far" because I am praying fervently to be able to call each person by name.....so they can recognize their own name coming from my lips.
We work with 5 congregations and I thought I would just list them so you could see them. We have not been able to get anyone to explain the "rules" or sounds of the letters as of yet. These are names of the towns we visit each week and I try to say.
Esikhaweni
Empageni Ngwelezane
Enseleni
Mpumalanga
Richards Bay----we've got this one down
Pathuthaditjhaba--this is not a congregation we visit but is another town
Pathuthaditjhaba--this is not a congregation we visit but is another town
Here is the name of a two ladies I have met: Ntombikayise Ntuli (I left out her middle name), Snenhlanhla Mthcthwa Sanele
So you see a little bit of my frustration.
Education
Education is one of the areas of our focus in trying to "lift" the people in this area. Learning new things and reading (just about anything) has brought so much joy into my life. I want these families to be "on fire" with a desire to learn more or at least a vision of what learning can do to brighten their life.....mentally, economically, and spiritually. So-o-o we began a quest on how we could do that. We are still taking baby steps but we are making progress. We hope this is just the very beginning and much more is to come. Although education is one of the options in our Self Reliance program offered by our church, we felt the desire to try to reach an even broader audience. As usual, this is up to us to forge a plan.
Friday we stopped by a Primary (elementary) School to offer our services for free tutoring or classroom assistance to a classroom teacher. This hasn't been as easy as expected. I have been trying since the second day we arrived. Friday we decided to try just stopping by and trying to speak to the principal. We really prayed that someone would allow us to help in this school. We arrived there and it was so discouraging....the metal gates, locks and no Welcome sign. we saw a security guard and waved him over. He unlocked the gate and pointed to the administration office. We had to be buzzed inside. Then we were in the lobby of the school but the secretary/reception's desk was behind glass. We buzzed and she answered the intercom but did not open her window. We explained why we were there and she left to go ask someone. A while later, she invited us back into the office of the assistant principal (or something like that). This hallway had another locked metal gate to pass through. We had a wonderful visit with him and he was very excited to accept our services when he realized they were "free". We discussed several scenarios and he will get back with us. We left "walking on air". As we left, I couldn't help having such a sad feeling in an elementary school. It actually felt a little like a prison...metal gates everywhere, buzzers. I am so glad that the schools I taught in were not like that.
On Wednesday we had another exciting "baby step". Larry and I went with 2 young missionaries to the University of Zululand. It is about 45 minutes away. They have 16,000 students on this campus. We went to see if the university would allow us to use a classroom that would be available 2 nights a week to teach a class there. We went from the administration building to 3 other buildings as we tried to locate the "decision marker" for finding a classroom. We would like to set up a seminary class that is open to anyone on campus. We would provide a teacher (Zulu) at no charge if we could have the room. As you would expect, this turned into quite a wild goose chase. Eventually, we made our request to the "number two" person and they said we can talk to the "number one" person next week. We felt VERY encouraged. While we were there, one of the administrators mentioned youth organizations. We decided to try to form a youth organization also. We went to the Dean of Students, but she was out of the office for 5 days. We will call her when she returns. How exciting to possibly work with University students.
Classes to Teach
There are things that you and I take for granted and assume, everyone knows and accepts. As we talked to the schools and University personnel we realize this is not the case. For example: Hard Work. Our missionaries are teaching classes on hard work in high schools. That sounds ludicrous to us. But they are teaching students the value of hard work at school and to accomplish your goals and dreams. Students do not understand or believe that hard work helps. Many schools are asking for this. Another class is on honesty, and another class on clean speech and another class on modest dress. The administrators do NOT have to be convinced of the value of this...they see the value to their students. Now that wouldn't be happening in the U.S.! So many basic principles that haven't been formally taught here.Sandy
Creepy Crawlers
Hello from Africa,
Creepy Crawlers:
I am blessed to not be afraid of spiders, but I definitely don't enjoy any creeping bugs. As I said before, it is so incredibly hot and so if there is a breeze (and even if there is a slight movement of air) we have our doors open. Even after dark, we keep them open...which of course, gives an inviting invitation to bugs. However, I think they will find their way into the house regardless.
Walking:
Because of the gates, we have only met 2 neighbors and I try hard. There is NO intercom or button to push at the gate to get someone to answer. When you pull up to the gate, you call the person on your cell phone (unless it is your home) and they come out and open the gate. If you don't have their phone number, you don't get inside. Maybe when it gets to be cooler, people will step outside.
Taxis are the main type of "transport" here. But they are not like the taxis in America. They are just a little bigger than a mini van (maybe a full sized van) and are white. They loop in a specific route but there is no schedule at all. There are places along the road called Taxi stands (but most are just an area along side the road with no markings but the people know where to stand...a few have a cover or shade). People wait here until a taxi comes. The taxi leaves when every seat is filled. It may take 2 minutes or 3 hours. You tell the driver (when you are new) where you want to go and he tells you if he is going there. There are ddifferent prices depending on how far you are going. Sometimes if the taxi is almost full, they might leave and try the next taxi stand to fill up but mainly they sit there until it fills. Different taxis go to different locations so you must ask the driver if he is going to where you want to go. I asked how often taxis come to pick people up. They shrugged and said from every 30 minutes to every 2 hours for popular places that are nearby. If you want to go to someplace 2 hours away, they will come once a day or every other day....you stand and wait, I guess. They said: We don't need a schedule, you just wait and the taxi comes!
However, most or all of the domestic workers who come to clean homes in Richards Bay, come from the townships (very poor areas ourside of town). Some of these people ride a regular bus from their township into town where they are dropped off at a few different locations and then they walk to their employment. The bus leaves every morning at 6:30 AM and returns at 3:30 PM. I don't know why everyone doesn't ride this bus...maybe it costs more or maybe it is only for certain employees. I ask millions of questions from everyone I meet but there are still so many puzzles.
MALL
I told you about our mall. Today, we went to pick up supplies for people at the mall and the power went out. Lights went out, stores closed. Two big stores stayed open with just a few lihgts (the rest of the store was dark). This is called "LOAD SHARING". I guess it means, you have to share the load of no electricity. We waited and waited and found out the power outages would be until 8 PM. People were eating lunch at restuarants, but the kitchen must close because of no electricity. Interesting.
I want to let you know more about this mall: It is as large as the Park Meadows Mall. Maybe it is larger, I can't tell. It is huge. But there are no large open areas, places to sit, wide walkways. It is kind of airconditioned. It is defintely cooler than outside but it is still hot and muggy. Every space is used. No chairs or benches in the mall or in the stores. We couldn't find one place to sit to try and read something. The mall is 2 floors and they just got escalators a few years ago. There are so many people that I can't figure it out. The place is packed from early morning to 6 PM when it closes. Richards Bay is not that large. Unemployment is so high. Where do the people come from and where do they get the money to shop? I have asked and asked and have been told thst they come from up to 300 Kilometers away to shop, they come from all of these townships. But they are shocked that I ask. They reply, This is not crowded. Today a man said, wait until Saturday that is a payday. You have to find a spot to walk and have to push your way down the hall.
DRYING CLOTHES
Last week (Monday) I washed the clothes and hung them out to dry. The clothes line is on the back of the house and I can't see it. Out of sight...oout of mind. I forgot to bring them in. It rained the next morning so I had to leave them out. To make a long story short, each time I went to get the clothes it had rained earlier. I didn't get to bring the clothes into the house until Thursday night! I hope rain water is clean. They were in 3 rain storms and I didn't rewash anything. Each time we looked for clean clothes, I remebered I left them outside.
We actually have a very small tumbler (dryer) but it heats up the house so bad, it is like an oven. Plus it costs quite a bit to run it. Our landlady considers "tumblers" a huge extravagance! But I haven't used a clothes line for decades...maybe since before I ws married.
LOVE THE PEOPLE
The main reason I started to write was to tell you all the wonderful things I am learning here. Most of all, I have a strong desire to be of service. Communicating is still a challenge because I can't understand,,,,,neither the English OR the Zulu. But I never give up...I hope I won't. I am trying to learn everything I can so we can be of service,.
Today we spent 1 hour questioning a Zulu man to get a better understanding to the roadblocks and obstacles of his people for bettering themselves. He is an educated man and came from poverty. We were wandering around trying to find our way and we were lost. He stopped to help us. Then he saw our name tags and that we were from the Church of Jesus Chrit of Latter Day Saints. He was also a member of our church from a small township. He felt inspired to come and help us even before he knew who we were. He spent over an hour leading us to wherever we needed. Then he spent an hour helping us understanding the Zulu people better. It was an answer to our pleading prayer that morning.
Today we spent 1 hour questioning a Zulu man to get a better understanding to the roadblocks and obstacles of his people for bettering themselves. He is an educated man and came from poverty. We were wandering around trying to find our way and we were lost. He stopped to help us. Then he saw our name tags and that we were from the Church of Jesus Chrit of Latter Day Saints. He was also a member of our church from a small township. He felt inspired to come and help us even before he knew who we were. He spent over an hour leading us to wherever we needed. Then he spent an hour helping us understanding the Zulu people better. It was an answer to our pleading prayer that morning.
We love you.
The Todds
Three emails in one day! A Mission is Hard!
Please save and read this one on Monday or Tuesday or Wednesday...not now.
Hello to the most Wonderful Children and Spouses and dad!
I owe you an apology.....I am always having to apologize..
A mission is HARD! That's right...it is hard. Of course, most anything that is worthwhile is usually difficult/hard. I am so excited to be here. I wouldn't change it. But everyday is very humbling....and exciting.
When you or your spouse went on a mission, I had perfect confidence in you (this would be true of my in-laws also, even though I didn't know you when you went on a mission). I never, ever worried about you on your mission. My friends and other moms, often spoke of how they worried about their children when they were on a mission. Not me. I KNEW you would be OK. I KNEW you were faithful, and obedient, and were serving the Lord. What more could possibly be done? The same with my mom and dad...I never worried about them.
I knew you had hard times and you sometimes sounded "down". But I never, ever, thought you would fail, give up or even be sidetracked.
But I didn't know how hard it was!. I love and respect you even more,,,now that I am serving a mission. Thank you for your wonderful service to the Lord. Thank you for working hard, no matter what.
Dad, (Grandpa Clark) the same goes for you. You served 3 missions! I loved you for it, but I didn't realize how challenging it was.
Love to you all.
Mom, Sandy, Sister Todd
Dad's Point of View
Hi Everyone,
I wanted to give you an update; from my standpoint; and include some pictures we have taken. We have had a wonderful last couple of weeks. We are starting to feel better about what we are doing. This past week we did several things. We are teaching a FHE every Friday in a branch president's home. He will invite a new family each week so we are getting to know some people better. We went with a set of missionaries to Zululand University. We are trying to arrange a room on campus where our members can hold an institute class. We are also trying to get an LDS group registered on campus as a recognized social group. There are15 other religious groups registered on campus so we are hoping for the best. They look on religious groups as a positive group. In this mission in the districts the senior couples meet with prospective missionaries and give them the forms to fill out to go on a mission. We meet with Samleko Molio on Wednesday and gave him the paperwork. Today at church he had filled out everything and I gave the branch president his forms to fill out and complete. He will be interviewed by the branch president and then the mission president. It is very exciting to be involved with this process. We met with the principal in a primary school (Elementary) to see if we can volunteer in the school once a week. Mom is very excited to do this and it will be a wonderful experience. This school is at least 75% white and is very close to our home. There are a couple of members in the school. In the townships the schools would be 100% black.
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